Jamie and I set out at 10:30A for a 4:30P Proton appointment, on what usually is about a three and half hour ride form Port Washington, NY to Boston, MA. What do they say “best laid plans”? Instead it turned out be a five and half hour ride, we got into Boston at about 4P. It wasn't like this last week, maybe it was because of the holiday coming up, but it seemed like all people were on the road at the same time, heading to places North. By the time we unloaded our stuff and dropped off the car at the garage it was about 4:15P…but this way okay. Just as I was starting to wonder if I would make my appointment on time after leaving what I thought was a comfortable 6 hours between leaving New York and my appointment in Boston...I got a call. My 4:30P Proton session needed to be moved; I was instead to go to regular radiation in another building at 7P. See how everything just works out? LOL! And I was worried about the mask.
Turns out that the Proton machine was down today (this happens, I’m told). The calibration on the machine is so precise that should it become even slightly off, they shut down the machine for repair and reschedule all Proton patients to the conventional radiation location. Hard to complain about this, precision is everything when it comes to radiation.
Jamie and I shopped at Whole Foods, and then went to my 7P appointment, which became more like 7:30P, because my chart hadn’t been sent over yet. The chart arrived. They did their usual “hold still”, and we were out of there in no time.
My thoughts…the machinery may be precise, but the scheduling is not. Quite the day. Time to sleep.
Monday, June 30, 2008
The Weekend
What can I say…I was really glad to get home, and then it was Sunday.
I felt strong enough to go to my 8A yoga class on Saturday...very happy about that. We created a healing circle, and then my yogamates asked me how I was doing. I said that I was feeling okay and that I had just completed my first week of radiation. The group clapped and congratulated me as if I had just completed something quite enormous...like I had completed a Marathon, or completed my Masters degree, or maybe completed my first week of sobriety. I felt a bit shy about receiving this attention for completing a week of radiation. I gathered up my yoga things, and said goodbye, and as I thought more about this attention, I thought this is worth applauding, not because I did all that much this week, but because I was now one week closer to being at the end of my own Marathon.
On Sunday it's time to pack up again, and get on the road. Monday is Rachel’s first day at Day Camp, she's really excited.. and I’m glad I can see her off on the bus before she goes. Jon stays behind this week and works, Jamie comes with me...and she's really excited. Just kidding. This will be a short week, no radiation on Friday. It’s everyone’s holiday weekend, even Proton Center. We’ll be home on Thursday afternoon, provided traffic is not insane, if it is…we’ll be home Thursday night. Thinking about the mask…obsessing about the mask. Feel okay, felt better, felt worse. I think I mostly feel tired.
I felt strong enough to go to my 8A yoga class on Saturday...very happy about that. We created a healing circle, and then my yogamates asked me how I was doing. I said that I was feeling okay and that I had just completed my first week of radiation. The group clapped and congratulated me as if I had just completed something quite enormous...like I had completed a Marathon, or completed my Masters degree, or maybe completed my first week of sobriety. I felt a bit shy about receiving this attention for completing a week of radiation. I gathered up my yoga things, and said goodbye, and as I thought more about this attention, I thought this is worth applauding, not because I did all that much this week, but because I was now one week closer to being at the end of my own Marathon.
On Sunday it's time to pack up again, and get on the road. Monday is Rachel’s first day at Day Camp, she's really excited.. and I’m glad I can see her off on the bus before she goes. Jon stays behind this week and works, Jamie comes with me...and she's really excited. Just kidding. This will be a short week, no radiation on Friday. It’s everyone’s holiday weekend, even Proton Center. We’ll be home on Thursday afternoon, provided traffic is not insane, if it is…we’ll be home Thursday night. Thinking about the mask…obsessing about the mask. Feel okay, felt better, felt worse. I think I mostly feel tired.
Day Five
Day Five
10:15A on Friday was my fifth treatment, but only my second one at the Proton Center. It seemed like I was just there. I was, I had been there at 5P yesterday. We arrived on time but had to wait about a half hour before I was able to slip into the mask (it’s too early for me to start disliking this mask, but I do…got to work on that). Can this treatment really be only 20 minutes? It seems twice that long while I’m suspending in a space with no real light, no movement, only an occasional chime from the machine, or a beep from the closing door. Jon suggests afterward that we put together a CD for me to listen to during treatment, and make it as close to the length of the treatment as we can, that way I would have a sense of how much time had passed…and more importantly…how much more time was left to go. I think this is a really great idea! I’ll have to work on it this weekend when I’m home. The session ended, we waited to speak to my doctor (this will be an every Friday event). He asked me how I was feeling, to which I responded “tired and queasy”, and he said “that’s good, that’s how we know it’s working”. He could not know how funny this was, but the last time someone said that to me, I was pregnant with Jamie. My obstetrician asked me how I was feeling, I told her “sick to my stomach…all the time” What did she say? “I like to hear that my pregnant mothers are nauseous, that means that everything is going well”. She was right...everything did turn out well. Definitely seems like nausea is friend, not foe…I will try and keep this mind.
Jon and I headed back to the apartment; we left some of our bits and pieces behind, so less to lug back and forth. We hit the road. After about 90 miles we decided to stop at a roadside diner in Connecticut called Shady Glen…very good burgers, and a great chocolate ice cream soda with mocha chip ice cream. If you’re ever in Manchester, Ct., and looking for some comforting, comfort food…I highly recommend the place.
As so it goes, one week down, six more to go.
10:15A on Friday was my fifth treatment, but only my second one at the Proton Center. It seemed like I was just there. I was, I had been there at 5P yesterday. We arrived on time but had to wait about a half hour before I was able to slip into the mask (it’s too early for me to start disliking this mask, but I do…got to work on that). Can this treatment really be only 20 minutes? It seems twice that long while I’m suspending in a space with no real light, no movement, only an occasional chime from the machine, or a beep from the closing door. Jon suggests afterward that we put together a CD for me to listen to during treatment, and make it as close to the length of the treatment as we can, that way I would have a sense of how much time had passed…and more importantly…how much more time was left to go. I think this is a really great idea! I’ll have to work on it this weekend when I’m home. The session ended, we waited to speak to my doctor (this will be an every Friday event). He asked me how I was feeling, to which I responded “tired and queasy”, and he said “that’s good, that’s how we know it’s working”. He could not know how funny this was, but the last time someone said that to me, I was pregnant with Jamie. My obstetrician asked me how I was feeling, I told her “sick to my stomach…all the time” What did she say? “I like to hear that my pregnant mothers are nauseous, that means that everything is going well”. She was right...everything did turn out well. Definitely seems like nausea is friend, not foe…I will try and keep this mind.
Jon and I headed back to the apartment; we left some of our bits and pieces behind, so less to lug back and forth. We hit the road. After about 90 miles we decided to stop at a roadside diner in Connecticut called Shady Glen…very good burgers, and a great chocolate ice cream soda with mocha chip ice cream. If you’re ever in Manchester, Ct., and looking for some comforting, comfort food…I highly recommend the place.
As so it goes, one week down, six more to go.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Day Four...First Proton Therapy Treatment
Proton Therapy is serious business; in comparison to the Conventional Radiation experience it seems quite formidable.
The Proton Radiation Room is huge, the equipment is state of the art…it looks like something from “2001-A Space Odyssey”. The table I sit on moves in and out of a large cyclotron that delivers a pin-pointed beam that starts some three floors away. There is music playing…whatever you want; there’s no music in conventional radiation, not even if you wanted it. I lie on a table, no one matches my tattoos, no one seems to even care that I have them. The mask that I was fitted for a couple of weeks ago is strapped to my face, a la Hannibal Lecter. It is tight, practically suctioned to my face. Small glitch though, somehow even though this mask was made for my face, something has changed, my nose bumps out where the mask bumps in…adjustments have to be made. No way would I be able to stand twenty minutes a day with this on my face, and have it boring into my bumpy nose. They fix it. It’s better, but some serious visualization has to happen here,…I’m thinking facial again. The mask prevents me from seeing anything, my eyes can’t open, my mouth can't open…I am strapped. I am told through a speaker that the treatment will start. I'm asked if I’m okay?; funny though because I couldn't speak even if I wanted to…I give a thumbs up, which they can see on one of the many cameras where they are seated…in the other room. In case of emergency, I have a button to push. I wonder as I’m strapped into my mask not able to be anything but still…”what would be emergency enough to push this button and grind this process to a halt?” There is a low sort of long beep sound. I lie here wondering, visualizing, I think about what I’m going to be doing later,…I think about this beam and what it is doing. The beam stops, someone says “Okay, that’s the end of the treatment for today, see you tomorrow”. I think to myself “this word treatment seems so weird “; before this process, treatments brought images of hot stones, massages and facials. Guess one person’s mud is another person’s radiation.
The Proton Radiation Room is huge, the equipment is state of the art…it looks like something from “2001-A Space Odyssey”. The table I sit on moves in and out of a large cyclotron that delivers a pin-pointed beam that starts some three floors away. There is music playing…whatever you want; there’s no music in conventional radiation, not even if you wanted it. I lie on a table, no one matches my tattoos, no one seems to even care that I have them. The mask that I was fitted for a couple of weeks ago is strapped to my face, a la Hannibal Lecter. It is tight, practically suctioned to my face. Small glitch though, somehow even though this mask was made for my face, something has changed, my nose bumps out where the mask bumps in…adjustments have to be made. No way would I be able to stand twenty minutes a day with this on my face, and have it boring into my bumpy nose. They fix it. It’s better, but some serious visualization has to happen here,…I’m thinking facial again. The mask prevents me from seeing anything, my eyes can’t open, my mouth can't open…I am strapped. I am told through a speaker that the treatment will start. I'm asked if I’m okay?; funny though because I couldn't speak even if I wanted to…I give a thumbs up, which they can see on one of the many cameras where they are seated…in the other room. In case of emergency, I have a button to push. I wonder as I’m strapped into my mask not able to be anything but still…”what would be emergency enough to push this button and grind this process to a halt?” There is a low sort of long beep sound. I lie here wondering, visualizing, I think about what I’m going to be doing later,…I think about this beam and what it is doing. The beam stops, someone says “Okay, that’s the end of the treatment for today, see you tomorrow”. I think to myself “this word treatment seems so weird “; before this process, treatments brought images of hot stones, massages and facials. Guess one person’s mud is another person’s radiation.
Day Three...Conventional Radiation
I have to hold very still. My head is laid on an “immobilizing device”, to the non-medical everyday man this looks like a piece of plastic that fits your head. Certain adjustments are made,…chin up, tilt this way, tilt that way, the technicians line up my previously made tattoos, a piece of surgical tape is stretched across my forehead to keep me…very still. The technicians leave the room and step behind a foot thick door, and I stay behind. The table moves, the machinery moves around me, I notice a red beam of light, some high pitch sound, I can open my eyes and look around…but only my eyes can move…not my head…I have to lie very still. If I move the radiation will not target what it needs to…I think I really need to swallow, but I won’t, because I need to do this right. The beam stops, the high pitched sound stops, the foot thick door opens. The tape is removed, the table is lowered, and off I go onto my day. “Have a nice day”, the techs say to me “See you tomorrow”. It feels like no big deal, but it so is…as soon as I get off the table I feel not the same as when I got on…a bit dizzy, a bit seasick, wiped…like I’ve definitely been through something.
Jon and I head back to the apartment, where I need…need to rest for a while. We think about what I’m up for, and where to go. I could easily lie around all day…but I won’t, if I can go…I’m going. We decide to take a road trip to Ipswich for Ipswich Clams (about a 45 minute ride), and then to Richardson’s Ice Cream (an ice creamery where they milk their own cows, and make their own ice cream). I have Kahlua Fudge Brownie and Peppermint Stick in a cup, and Jon has a Coffee Fudge Oreo Cone. The portions are huge and delicious. This is entertainment!
Jon and I head back to the apartment, where I need…need to rest for a while. We think about what I’m up for, and where to go. I could easily lie around all day…but I won’t, if I can go…I’m going. We decide to take a road trip to Ipswich for Ipswich Clams (about a 45 minute ride), and then to Richardson’s Ice Cream (an ice creamery where they milk their own cows, and make their own ice cream). I have Kahlua Fudge Brownie and Peppermint Stick in a cup, and Jon has a Coffee Fudge Oreo Cone. The portions are huge and delicious. This is entertainment!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Day 1...and 2
After a late start...of course, Jon and I got up to to Boston about 2P...moved into the apartment, (that didn't take long), and took the three block walk over to the hospital for my first radiation session at 3P. These first few sessions will be conventional radiation, not Proton (so no mask). I was wiped out afterwards, I'm sure not from the treatment but more from the day. We came back and unpacked, we went shopping at the Whole Foods across the street (very convenient), we ate, and then it all washed over me how much we had gone through to get to this day. Big Day. I so want this to work.
Today's appointment was at 8:30A, back on the same table, a zap here, a zap there, a zap here and there, and I'm done. I feel tired, but not as emotionally exhasuted. Think Jon and I will go to the movies.
Today's appointment was at 8:30A, back on the same table, a zap here, a zap there, a zap here and there, and I'm done. I feel tired, but not as emotionally exhasuted. Think Jon and I will go to the movies.
Monday, June 23, 2008
Meet Mr. Dubenschmeimer
Meet Mr. Dubenschmeimer, so named by my 12 year old daughter Rachel. This tumor has been a presence in her life as long as she can remember, and I guess she felt it should have a name. Anyway, it sort of fits. It’s a serious name, without being so formidable that you couldn’t take it down in a fight.
Mr. Dubenschmeimer is rude, he has definitely overstayed his welcome. He’s intrusive. He leans on the carotid artery, and bangs into all his neighbors (the cranial nerves that I need to see, hear, swallow, speak). He gives new meaning to the phrase from the song “Getting to Know You”, he has definitely “become part of the furniture”, he in fact has become the furniture. Mr. Debenschmeimer has invaded the skull base so totally, that he actually has become the skull-base, which is why he can’t be removed, so instead he will become something closer to petrified after the radiation.
Mr. Dubenschmeimer is that fairly large (to be inside your head, anyway), irregular shaped bright white mass on the right side of this picture. Wish I had a pointer, but you will figure it out I’m sure.
Goodbye to Mr. Dubenschmeimer.
Mr. Dubenschmeimer is that fairly large (to be inside your head, anyway), irregular shaped bright white mass on the right side of this picture. Wish I had a pointer, but you will figure it out I’m sure.
Goodbye to Mr. Dubenschmeimer.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Backward and forward
A bit of history...
It was almost eighteen years ago that I woke up one morning with double vision,. Eighteen years ago I was 30, living in an apartment, Jon and I had been married for 3 1/2 years, we had a 1 year old baby, and I had a brain tumor. Eighteen years ago the technology was cruder, testing and surgery were not what they are today; this seems strange because in some ways 18 years ago doesn't seem like a long time ago, but in the world of medicine, it is a lifetime. The history...my history with this tumor has been something of a miracle. It is a miracle that I'm here writing, talking, and about to embark on what I hope will be the last chapter of this story.
When I was first diagnosed, I was told that I had either a rare benign tumor called an eosinophillic granuloma, which is most frequently found in children (obviously, at 30 I wasn't exactly a child, but it may have been growing for years). This type of tumor was supposed to be very receptive to low dose radiation. The other alternative was that it was cancer, but if I was to start radiation (assuming that the tumor was benign) without a tumor biopsy, and the radiation didn't work, there would be no way of knowing what kind of tumor it was at that point. The radiation would change the tumor's structure and then my doctors wouldn't know what kind of chemo with which to treat it. My surgeon recommended having the surgery to confirm its pathology. The biopsy, while very small (arguably too small) confirmed my doctor's diagnosis that it was a benign eosinophillic granuloma. The surgery was long. I started radiation two weeks after surgery, a comparatively low dosage to what I'm about to receive. I lost the hearing in my left ear, I had double vision for four months after surgery, I had facial paralysis on the left side of my face, I had to learn how to swallow again, and my voice was hoarse. It took seven months to regain full function. But the miracle is that most of this was temporary (except for the hearing). I walked, I talked, my tongue stayed in my mouth, I was able to breathe on my own, I could swallow...and supposedly I was cured.
I would be watched every year for the next 17 years. I would periodically complain of dizziness, light flashes in front of my eyes, headaches, a tightness in my face, but my doctors felt that with no marked increase in the size of the tumor on the recent MRI compared to the year's previous MRI, that my symptoms were stress related, or a virus, or diet related, or something else related. Within those 17 years Jon and I had another baby, bought and sold two different houses, went on many great vacations, bought and sold several cars, adopted several pets...we were living a life.
Then last year I was due for another MRI, this time I was seeing a new neurologist, I had left the one I had for 17 years because I was tired of not being able to get him on the phone when I needed him . I had been hoarse for three months and I started to have trouble speaking (there was clearly something wrong). This MRI showed that the tumor was slightly larger than the year before. My previous MRI's had indicated this as well, but Dr. Do Nothing, (as I will call him for now-the one I couldn't get on the phone) apparently never bothered to compare the recent MRI with the original MRI, and the tumor had grown to twice the size it had been in 1990. Oops! I had the second surgery in October 2007 and found out that the diagnosis was wrong in 1990, and that the tumor was not a benign eosinophillic granuloma, but a slow growing cancerous tumor called a chondrosarcoma. I had been prescribed a treatment for a tumor I never had. Oops!
My neurosurgeon while able to accurately diagnose the tumor, was unable (because of its size and location) to remove it all during that one eight hour surgery. Afterward, his suggestion was to have another surgery and perhaps even another. I just didn't know how I could withstand so many surgeries. I began to research. I discovered that more surgery would never be able to totally remove this kind of skull-based bone tumor, and that in fact there is evidence that surgery may create a growth spurt, so more surgery was definitely not the option. I asked my surgeon if I would be a candidate for Proton Therapy. I had read about this type of radiation online...he told me that only small round tumors are candidates for Proton Therapy. I found out that this was completely false. I found out after pursuing this therapy that it is best for large, hard to get to, irregular tumors (which is what I have). If I had not persevered and taken my doctor's advice, I stood no real chance of getting better...only worse. My surgeon is excellent, but he can't know all there is to know. I would have preferred that instead of telling me something he didn't know as though he did, that he simply said "I don't know". You've got to be your own advocate.
During any of those 17 years, something could have happened. The tumor is in a very bad place, next to many different nerves as well as the carotid artery. I could have had a stroke during childbirth, I could have been left quite depleted by either of my surgeries (the one in 1990, or the one I just had), but I wasn't. I could have had a fast growing cancerous tumor, but it grows quite slowly. The tumor I have is supposed to have a high success rate for cure with Proton radiation therapy...another type of tumor may not have as high a success rate. I had radiation before, that could have prevented me from having it again now, but amazingly it was still an option, because I didn't have enough radiation the last time to keep me from having it this time.
Of course this is a way abridged version of Mr. Dubenschmeimer's (the tumor) history. If you only started to hear my story this last October, you may think that I've only been waiting since then for my appointment this Monday, but really I've been waiting 18 years.
I will we writing as frequently as I can about my experience, and I've also decided to film it along with a couple of good friends of mine. As many of you know who have been getting my group emails over the months, I have passed along things I've learned along the way, hoping that it may help others. Here are some other things,...always listen to your body (no one knows it better than you), don't be afraid to question your doctor's authority, they need to be questioned, they are just people, and they make mistakes too,...plenty. If your doctor seems like a jerk, he probably is a jerk. I thought I was the only one who didn't get along with Dr. Do Nothing, and then I come to find out in passing, that several other friends of mine had gone to him, and thought he was a jerk. There is strength in numbers. The more friends and family that you can have looking and researching on your behalf, the better off you will be. It is hard to be calm in the eye of the storm, but it is what will gain you the most clarity to make the best decision for yourself. Remain as hopeful as you can, because positive thinking attracts positive thinking; I believe this to be so, I am living it.
I'm off to see the wizard!
It was almost eighteen years ago that I woke up one morning with double vision,. Eighteen years ago I was 30, living in an apartment, Jon and I had been married for 3 1/2 years, we had a 1 year old baby, and I had a brain tumor. Eighteen years ago the technology was cruder, testing and surgery were not what they are today; this seems strange because in some ways 18 years ago doesn't seem like a long time ago, but in the world of medicine, it is a lifetime. The history...my history with this tumor has been something of a miracle. It is a miracle that I'm here writing, talking, and about to embark on what I hope will be the last chapter of this story.
When I was first diagnosed, I was told that I had either a rare benign tumor called an eosinophillic granuloma, which is most frequently found in children (obviously, at 30 I wasn't exactly a child, but it may have been growing for years). This type of tumor was supposed to be very receptive to low dose radiation. The other alternative was that it was cancer, but if I was to start radiation (assuming that the tumor was benign) without a tumor biopsy, and the radiation didn't work, there would be no way of knowing what kind of tumor it was at that point. The radiation would change the tumor's structure and then my doctors wouldn't know what kind of chemo with which to treat it. My surgeon recommended having the surgery to confirm its pathology. The biopsy, while very small (arguably too small) confirmed my doctor's diagnosis that it was a benign eosinophillic granuloma. The surgery was long. I started radiation two weeks after surgery, a comparatively low dosage to what I'm about to receive. I lost the hearing in my left ear, I had double vision for four months after surgery, I had facial paralysis on the left side of my face, I had to learn how to swallow again, and my voice was hoarse. It took seven months to regain full function. But the miracle is that most of this was temporary (except for the hearing). I walked, I talked, my tongue stayed in my mouth, I was able to breathe on my own, I could swallow...and supposedly I was cured.
I would be watched every year for the next 17 years. I would periodically complain of dizziness, light flashes in front of my eyes, headaches, a tightness in my face, but my doctors felt that with no marked increase in the size of the tumor on the recent MRI compared to the year's previous MRI, that my symptoms were stress related, or a virus, or diet related, or something else related. Within those 17 years Jon and I had another baby, bought and sold two different houses, went on many great vacations, bought and sold several cars, adopted several pets...we were living a life.
Then last year I was due for another MRI, this time I was seeing a new neurologist, I had left the one I had for 17 years because I was tired of not being able to get him on the phone when I needed him . I had been hoarse for three months and I started to have trouble speaking (there was clearly something wrong). This MRI showed that the tumor was slightly larger than the year before. My previous MRI's had indicated this as well, but Dr. Do Nothing, (as I will call him for now-the one I couldn't get on the phone) apparently never bothered to compare the recent MRI with the original MRI, and the tumor had grown to twice the size it had been in 1990. Oops! I had the second surgery in October 2007 and found out that the diagnosis was wrong in 1990, and that the tumor was not a benign eosinophillic granuloma, but a slow growing cancerous tumor called a chondrosarcoma. I had been prescribed a treatment for a tumor I never had. Oops!
My neurosurgeon while able to accurately diagnose the tumor, was unable (because of its size and location) to remove it all during that one eight hour surgery. Afterward, his suggestion was to have another surgery and perhaps even another. I just didn't know how I could withstand so many surgeries. I began to research. I discovered that more surgery would never be able to totally remove this kind of skull-based bone tumor, and that in fact there is evidence that surgery may create a growth spurt, so more surgery was definitely not the option. I asked my surgeon if I would be a candidate for Proton Therapy. I had read about this type of radiation online...he told me that only small round tumors are candidates for Proton Therapy. I found out that this was completely false. I found out after pursuing this therapy that it is best for large, hard to get to, irregular tumors (which is what I have). If I had not persevered and taken my doctor's advice, I stood no real chance of getting better...only worse. My surgeon is excellent, but he can't know all there is to know. I would have preferred that instead of telling me something he didn't know as though he did, that he simply said "I don't know". You've got to be your own advocate.
During any of those 17 years, something could have happened. The tumor is in a very bad place, next to many different nerves as well as the carotid artery. I could have had a stroke during childbirth, I could have been left quite depleted by either of my surgeries (the one in 1990, or the one I just had), but I wasn't. I could have had a fast growing cancerous tumor, but it grows quite slowly. The tumor I have is supposed to have a high success rate for cure with Proton radiation therapy...another type of tumor may not have as high a success rate. I had radiation before, that could have prevented me from having it again now, but amazingly it was still an option, because I didn't have enough radiation the last time to keep me from having it this time.
Of course this is a way abridged version of Mr. Dubenschmeimer's (the tumor) history. If you only started to hear my story this last October, you may think that I've only been waiting since then for my appointment this Monday, but really I've been waiting 18 years.
I will we writing as frequently as I can about my experience, and I've also decided to film it along with a couple of good friends of mine. As many of you know who have been getting my group emails over the months, I have passed along things I've learned along the way, hoping that it may help others. Here are some other things,...always listen to your body (no one knows it better than you), don't be afraid to question your doctor's authority, they need to be questioned, they are just people, and they make mistakes too,...plenty. If your doctor seems like a jerk, he probably is a jerk. I thought I was the only one who didn't get along with Dr. Do Nothing, and then I come to find out in passing, that several other friends of mine had gone to him, and thought he was a jerk. There is strength in numbers. The more friends and family that you can have looking and researching on your behalf, the better off you will be. It is hard to be calm in the eye of the storm, but it is what will gain you the most clarity to make the best decision for yourself. Remain as hopeful as you can, because positive thinking attracts positive thinking; I believe this to be so, I am living it.
I'm off to see the wizard!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Set-up Day
Last Thursday was set-up day. The day started at 8:30A and ended around 4P...I didn't do all that much and yet I was as exhausted as I might have been if I had spent the entire day running. Most of the day I found my self visualizing where else I could be at the moment, transferring my mind away from my body. During my CAT Scan (a cylindrical tube in which many x-rays take a picture of...well, in my case, the brain), I imagined alternately being in a cool, beautiful tropical waterfall, or on the edge of a perfect white beach with the ocean gently lapping at my feet. This test is actually about 40 or so uncomfortable minutes, in which hot metallic contrast is injected to make the picture..."pop". Very weird sensation...but I'm at the waterfall. The hard table starts to become really uncomfortable around now...but I had about 30 more minutes to go. From the scan, I have a small, very small haircut (shaving) made at the top of my hairline. This is made to apply small marker points so that they can know where to point the radiation beam. This is my only haircut for the day, but not my only marker points...as I will find out later. I lay on the table and have a mold made of my face...this is hot, moist, and claustrophobic...you can breath through your nose, but your mouth and eyes are sealed shut. I imagine that I'm receiving a fantastic facial, or alternately having heavy theatrical make-up applied (this must be what it feels like). This mask when it's completed will be what is strapped onto my face before every treatment I have for the next seven weeks. Next, my head is tilted back (sort of in a yoga fish pose), I'm almost positioned so that I am on the top of my head, chin up in the air...body laying on the table. This is done so that they can get yet a better picture of my brain on the scan...it only lasts about ten minutes, but that's a while to be on the top of one's head. Next, it's off the doctor's office for a very intricate physical. My neurological functions are tested...can I shrug my shoulders, lift my legs, raise my arms, walk on tip-toes? All these things I pass with flying colors. Can I follow a finger, can I grit my teeth, blow out my cheeks, stick out my tongue, swallow,...these things are somewhat challenged...but not new. I am scoped, something I've become used to...a long camera is passed down my nose into the back of my throat to see how my vocal chords are doing. Nothing new there, left one still paralyzed...this will not change...but still got the other one. Then it's off to have permanent (although small), tattoos made at various points on my face and head...it's to accurately point the beam (accuracy is way key here), during my treatments. The ink is injected with a usual syringe into these various places on my face...I imagine that I'm having botox treatments...never had them, but I'm guessing this is what it must feel like. I'm almost done, except for one last stop at a different location about a fifteen minute drive from my home base (Mass General Hospital), but also 15 minutes closer to being home. This stop is to have an MRI, with more chemical contrast injected into my body. This scan is to get a different perspective on the tumor. The MRI along with the CAT Scan is what will be used to create a three dimensional die-cut to be attached to the head of the Proton Beam to target the tumor. This took a surprisingly long 2 hours and I'm out at 4P. Long day.
Jon and I decided to eat (we hadn't all day) before we head out on the trip back home. We decide to go to a Ruby Tuesday which is directly across from the MRI center where I just had the scan. The place is empty (too late for lunch, too early for dinner). It's just us, and two other people at the bar. I look at these people...and can you believe it...one of the guys is Ken Howard. This may not mean much to many of you, maybe none of you...but it's particularly amazing to me. I know this is Ken Howard because I watched the re-runs of Crossing Jordan (which takes place in Boston) the whole time I was recovering from my surgery in November and December. Ken Howard was a mainish character on that show. I know it's stupid but watching Crossing Jordan got me through my recovery and there was Ken Howard sitting seven feet away from me. No I didn't ask for his autograph, or tell him my "uplifting story", it was just good enough to see him there, somehow comforting at the end of the draining day. I found out after looking him up on Google when I got home that he is appearing in a one-man show about Tip O'Neill at a regional Watertown theater (that's right where the Ruby Tuesday was)...guess he was knocking back a few cold ones before the show...just like Tip would do.
Life is weird. Don't you think?
Jon and I decided to eat (we hadn't all day) before we head out on the trip back home. We decide to go to a Ruby Tuesday which is directly across from the MRI center where I just had the scan. The place is empty (too late for lunch, too early for dinner). It's just us, and two other people at the bar. I look at these people...and can you believe it...one of the guys is Ken Howard. This may not mean much to many of you, maybe none of you...but it's particularly amazing to me. I know this is Ken Howard because I watched the re-runs of Crossing Jordan (which takes place in Boston) the whole time I was recovering from my surgery in November and December. Ken Howard was a mainish character on that show. I know it's stupid but watching Crossing Jordan got me through my recovery and there was Ken Howard sitting seven feet away from me. No I didn't ask for his autograph, or tell him my "uplifting story", it was just good enough to see him there, somehow comforting at the end of the draining day. I found out after looking him up on Google when I got home that he is appearing in a one-man show about Tip O'Neill at a regional Watertown theater (that's right where the Ruby Tuesday was)...guess he was knocking back a few cold ones before the show...just like Tip would do.
Life is weird. Don't you think?
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
The beginning of The Beginning
Tomorrow Jon and I travel to Boston, a trip one or the other, or both of us has made countless numbers of times. We went to school in Boston, we have friends in Boston, we've been on vacation there...but no trip we've taken before will feel quite like the trip we take tomorrow. Tomorrow's trip is the beginning of the beginning. On Thursday I will be at Mass General Proton Therapy Center for various brain scans, and set-up for the June 23rd proton radiation start date. I am anxious, anticipatory (this may be the same), dare I even use the word excited, I am somewhat inarticulate at the moment, I am overwhelmed, I am so hopeful. I take with me on this trip the usual "trip items", but most importantly I take with me the enormous feeling of support and love of all my friends and family. Keep sending that positive energy.
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brain tumors,
chondrosarcoma,
inspiration,
radiation therapy
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Believing just may be seeing
This most recent event has been both exciting and timely.
Looking ahead to the next couple of months with one car was daunting...under normal circumstances it would just be annoying, but considering the fact that I will be commuting back and forth for radiation therapy within the next several weeks for the next several weeks, the annoyance would grow larger. A week ago, I went to sleep and had a dream about getting a call that our new Prius was in and that we could come pick it up, the car in my dream was black with tan leather interior. Remember this was a dream.
While I was dreaming, we had put ourselves on two separate waiting lists, our preference was a grey metallic exterior, with a grey leather interior. We were preparing ourselves for the dim reality that we might have to wait anywhere from 6-12 weeks or more for a car. While we had a first preference, we would take almost any combination...but this would not decrease the wait all that much.
Last Saturday, around 5P, we received a call from a dealer that we had visited, but hadn't even put our name on their list. We had visited them to test drive a car, but they were too busy for us, and we were told that the wait would be months...so we didn't bother to put ourselves on that list. Not sure why we didn't, maybe because we didn't have to,...because it was that dealer that called us to ask if we were still looking for a Prius. "Yes, we are.", figuring that he was calling just to ask if we wanted to be one of the myriad of others on their list...ones still waiting. "Well, we have one coming in next week". "It's a black one, with tan leather interior, would that be okay". "Would that be okay?" "That's the car of my dreams (dream)! I am feeling quite strongly that I pulled this car in from the universe.
And so from now on...I am going to start pulling in all sorts of things from the universe. That's the plan.
Looking ahead to the next couple of months with one car was daunting...under normal circumstances it would just be annoying, but considering the fact that I will be commuting back and forth for radiation therapy within the next several weeks for the next several weeks, the annoyance would grow larger. A week ago, I went to sleep and had a dream about getting a call that our new Prius was in and that we could come pick it up, the car in my dream was black with tan leather interior. Remember this was a dream.
While I was dreaming, we had put ourselves on two separate waiting lists, our preference was a grey metallic exterior, with a grey leather interior. We were preparing ourselves for the dim reality that we might have to wait anywhere from 6-12 weeks or more for a car. While we had a first preference, we would take almost any combination...but this would not decrease the wait all that much.
Last Saturday, around 5P, we received a call from a dealer that we had visited, but hadn't even put our name on their list. We had visited them to test drive a car, but they were too busy for us, and we were told that the wait would be months...so we didn't bother to put ourselves on that list. Not sure why we didn't, maybe because we didn't have to,...because it was that dealer that called us to ask if we were still looking for a Prius. "Yes, we are.", figuring that he was calling just to ask if we wanted to be one of the myriad of others on their list...ones still waiting. "Well, we have one coming in next week". "It's a black one, with tan leather interior, would that be okay". "Would that be okay?" "That's the car of my dreams (dream)! I am feeling quite strongly that I pulled this car in from the universe.
And so from now on...I am going to start pulling in all sorts of things from the universe. That's the plan.
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