<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3225905841020314965.post5808758138355457911..comments</id><updated>2008-11-04T04:56:05.810-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Extraordinary Life of an Ordinary Woman: Expectations aren’t always what you would expect</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.myedgewalkerblog.com/feeds/5808758138355457911/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3225905841020314965/5808758138355457911/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.myedgewalkerblog.com/2008/10/expectations-arent-always-what-you.html'/><author><name>Heidi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16471007237878095118</uri><email>hdoones1@optonline.net</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3225905841020314965.post-4014795291973068006</id><published>2008-11-04T04:56:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T04:56:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I have written long passages as a comment on two o...</title><content type='html'>I have written long passages as a comment on two occasions only to have my browser crash and watch the words evaporate into the electronic ether.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I looked up the English proverb I tend to base things around, ‘Expect the best, and plan for the worst.’&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You‘ve been down a road few people travel and it’s a journey through a lonely place. While you’re on the voyage, it tends to give you a sense of clarity about the world and people around you, you would not ordinarily have. Our value of things increases the closer we come to losing them.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Also, you have a truer sense of how easy it is for life to come off the tracks, how fragile the world we build up around ourselves really is.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Our expectations today are wildly askew; they are based upon images force-fed to us and ones that portray a world of empty promises.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It doesn’t mean the world is a bad place, it just is a reminder maybe of how our value scale needs to be altered so we put a higher emphasis on aspects we would otherwise take for granted.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It reminds us there are actions we can take that cost us little but have a lasting effect on the world around us. Little gestures of civility, courtesy and humanity, which go quite a way in making the world, a better place.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3225905841020314965/5808758138355457911/comments/default/4014795291973068006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3225905841020314965/5808758138355457911/comments/default/4014795291973068006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.myedgewalkerblog.com/2008/10/expectations-arent-always-what-you.html?showComment=1225803360000#c4014795291973068006' title=''/><author><name>PJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02836974899495803366</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.myedgewalkerblog.com/2008/10/expectations-arent-always-what-you.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3225905841020314965.post-5808758138355457911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3225905841020314965/posts/default/5808758138355457911' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>